Problems are inevitable; your response to it is optional

Problems are inevitable; your response to it is optional

No matter how much sadness is there in your life, how much pain do you have, how much trouble you are in.... there is always a reason to smile. There is always a way to be happy. There is always a door that, if opened, will give you surprises. All you need to learn is to be calm. You don't need to be panic. Just take a deep breath and divert your mind, though it is not easy at first. Whenever we are in grief, we ,as a human being, tend to think about the problem most of the times. We never think of anything else. This is the main reason we remain in pain and sad mood.  

Your focus decides everything. You get what you think. Before going to the exam, people greet us with wishes like "best of luck, all the best" etc. These are nothing but the way of creating a positive environment around you and within you. This positive environment deviate your mind away from the nervousness and you feel relaxed; and when you are relaxed ,you perform better.  Also, when you are sick or having a plaster on your hand or leg, people say "get well soon". They are not doctors, they are not magicians. they are just the mean of jolting your mind and to deliver this message that everything will be fine if you start thinking positively.

Positive thinking is very helpful. It gives you hope. It gives you courage of going through the tough times. It makes you strong. It tells you "this will also pass away".

Life is not meant for moaning over your problems. It's about remembering good times and learning from tough times. 

Only people who are not going through tough times, who are free from problems are dead. You are alive. 

Mahatma Buddha said , "problems are inevitable, your response to them is optional, it's your choice". So focus on what you can do. Don't crib about the thing that is not in your control. Your main motive should be to be happy. When you know that you cann't control something then rathar than being irritated about the thing, be polite and accept the reality that "i will have to go through it, so why not with a big smile on my face and why not consider it a challenge and not a difficulty".... It will not eradicate the problem but give you a strength to go through it. 

Our problems make us experienced. It's upto you what do you want to experience- pain or learning.